Hair is looks greasy and frizzy?

I have naturally very tight long curls- more like twists than ringlets. Problem is, i want them to look healthy and free but there's always frizz which makes all my hair look a mess, or they are too individual which makes it look really horrible - like strands of wet hair. I have to wash my hair every day otherwise it dries out and i just have stragly sections. I've tried the frizz shampoo but then it makes my hair look too glossy- like wet almost. What should I do?